[caprice89]

I became a member of my sorority last fall and I'm overall pleased with being in this chapter. However, I don't have very many close sisters and sometimes I feel like a loser because I don't get asked to go out or hang out with people often. Last semester I started hanging out with one of my sisters more since she seemed so open to do so.

I wish more girls were like this and I could be more involved socially with my sisters. I joined because I wanted to experience closer friends and have the opportunity to do fun things with people and create close bonds and memories.

Its not really happening like I thought it would... and it makes me worry I'm not pretty enough to them to be popular or something. I can't figure it out.

Sometimes I think its because I'm the only full black person in my sorority... but I don't want to blame it on that.

Help. Ideas?