[FSUZeta]

an incident happened when i was vp1 of my chapter and the president wasn't around to make the decision that had to be made pretty much in a split second, and i was next in the chain of command. while i made the right decision morally, it was an unpopular decision with the majority of the chapter and they made me suffer for it, so i know how you feel.

i think that a lot of chapter members have no clue how much responsibility being an executive officer entails, and certainly the heaviest burden is on the president. i think that bevin had a great suggestion about holding bitch sessions with your exec. officers or getting together with non-sorority friends away from the house. of course, you can't discuss sorority business with them, but you can blow off some steam. sometimes a little mental vacation does a world of good. go for a long run or hit the gym. you can also speak to your advisors-they are there for you, and may have experienced something similar in their collegiate years.