Thread: Preppy Weddings
View Single Post
  #37  
Old 08-02-2010, 10:54 AM
Drolefille Drolefille is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Apr 2005
Posts: 13,593
Quote:
Originally Posted by MysticCat View Post
I don't think of nautical and preppy as the same thing at all. Preppy, especially New England preppy may incorporate nautical elements, but there is a difference.

No, I think part of the problem is that, as has been noted, preppy can mean what I'll call "true preppy" -- as in prep school and those for whom prep school is the norm -- and it can also mean what designers label a "preppy style", like what you see in lots of the pictures posted in this thread. That preppy style has taken on a life of its own, and like I've said, often that style doesn't reflect what I've called true preppy.

True preppy is marked by a conservatism, a we've-always-done-it-this-way-because-this-is-how-it's-done attitude. I'll give you an example:
No, I do get that marketed "preppy" and prep-school/old money are different. But as "traditional" weddings are particularly, well, traditional, I wouldn't be able to tell the difference between a true preppy wedding and a regular wedding. I'm sure there are all sorts of rules I don't know anything about and that they're all unwritten and mostly unspoken and if you have to ask you'll never know

Going to a Catholic school, we got called preppy just because we were the closest thing to a prep school around and we cost money, even though not everyone there was well off.

Like I said, I suspect I just don't 'get' it.
__________________
From the SigmaTo the K!
Polyamorous, Pansexual and Proud of it!
It Gets Better
Reply With Quote