Okay, here is my routine:
About 5 minutes after getting out of the whower, I put a good amount of mousse in my hair, about the size of a tennis ball. After that, I put some gel in my hair. I then hairspray all over (not tons). I then blowdry/diffuse my hair. If you want to see how it turns out, I have several pics. Just PM me.
And see, my problem is that I have very thin, but wavy hair. There is never a day that I can just wash and go. I have to either curl it or straighten it.