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Originally Posted by MUSK81
There will always be PNMs who care more about the groups that cut them than the ones who don't, but I think once most girls know which GLOs are interested in them, the GLOs look a lot more attractive. (Easy for me to say; I went to the most non-competitive school on the planet and was only cut by groups I didn't care about anyway.)
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I didn't get dropped (also a verrrry non-competitive school...and I was coached
) but I went into it knowing that if I did, it wasn't necessarily because they didn't like me. My mom had already explained very well that it can be anything from your grades to who you're competing with to an in house fight (you're Suzy's rush crush and Suzy is in a fight with Sandy and Sandy makes sure you get dropped to get even with Suzy). It's hard as a recruitment counselor to convince PNM's that this stuff DOES happen, but I wish we all could because maybe it would make recruitment a little easier on everyone. Not taking it personally would make it easier to concentrate on the groups that DO want Polly PNM.