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Everyone take a couple steps back and a deep breath.

im5am - you've gotten some good solid advice here. your daughter needs recs at a PAC10 school. grades are only going to get her so far. many national orgs require recs, even though the greek life office says otherwise. they don't know the individual chapter membership requirements (they can't).

Get recs. It can only help your daughter.
Practice conversation skills.
Let her handle the rest of recruitment on her own.