I just listened to how the chapter members were singing it as well. I didn't know there were different versions to the song, depending on how each chapter sings it. How cool.
My chapter usually passes the cup around and everyone takes a sip while the song is being sung, then on "love" that person drinks for a longer duration.
We were actually given a large cup (looks like a large wine glass really..) from another chapter for our installation. We use that as our Loving Cup
