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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06
I also think that if you're at a school with chapters of at least 60-70+ or so women (random reasonably large number), chances are that you probably do "fit in" better with those 2 chapters you don't like than you think. There are too many different people for you to really say that you don't fit with either of them. You're bound to find some girls who are like you.
I could MAYBE buy the "don't fit" argument if your school has like 2 sororities and each of them has like 20 people (whom you know personally because your school has deferred recruitment). But if you're at somewhere like IU, UGA, etc. there are too many women in one chapter to really make an accurate statement about your "fit."
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This is exactly why I don't buy the statement "you'll end up where you're a good fit" for PNMs at large schools. Besides the fact that it's a numbers game, the groups are too big to claim any kind of homegeneity.