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She has a whole summer (or, well, a month & 1/2 anyway) to NOT BE HER HIGH SCHOOL SELF ANYMORE. I still remember an old ad in a magazine from the summer before I went to college that said "today you get a fresh slate. Make the most of it."
From the sound of it, she's not going to a college with a lot of her old HS classmates so no one's going to know if she was the most popular person or the geekiest. Believe me, as far as who she dated etc, sorority members are going to look at that as...well, high school.
She (and you) need to stop seeing her as a "shy person." It's a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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It is all 33girl's fault. ~DrPhil
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