[Miriverite]

My big was actually the first affiliated woman I met on campus when I arrived as a freshman. A year after, when I went through recruitment, she was a Rho Chi, so I didn't know that she was an AXO as well. In fact, I remember being slightly disappointed because I already wanted her as my big, and I originally thought that she was part of another sorority! We mutually picked each other and have hung out occasionally. We're close enough that we can tell each other things and have deep conversations, but both she and I are insanely involved on campus and thus very busy. We usually meet up once a month or so, which is enough for both of us. She recently graduated, though, so I guess we'll see where our lineage goes next year when I get my little =)