[FSUZeta]

just as you ache a little when your child is chosen last for the sandlot soccer team, or when she breaks up with her first boyfriend and is so upset she can hardly catch her breath, you ache when they are not chosen to pledge your sorority.

usually it is okay if the daughter feels that that group is not right for them, because she was able to make that determination.

i had a hard time understanding how mothers felt this way, until i had my own children.