Hey Megan! It's awesome that you're the first one to go greek in your family -- I was too! As far as finding recs, the best thing you can do is ask everyone you know. You never know who was a sorority woman. Many people that you would never expect were greek! Check with coworkers, parents, friends, friends' parents, etc. Maybe have your friends ask around. Also, some sororities allow actives to write recs for a PNM, so long as that PNM is not going through recruitment for their chapter. Hope that helps!