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Originally Posted by ellebud
BTW: Please don't call other posters "haters" because they, while rooting for your success, offer information/caution because they have more experience and information in a given area. Notice that in other forums here when someone says, "I'm going through recruitment for the 4th time, I only want ABC and this time I will get it," and other posters says, "Well....maybe not," they aren't not called "haters". They are called realistic, not blowing smoke, etc.
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I hope this isn't directed at me - I haven't called anyone a "hater" (or something else in different words). I'm listening to everyone, questioning where I have questions, and making a decision based on all of the info I have.
Also, think of it this way: How many people say things like "you're taking advice from a message board instead of the real people you know?" when they come here asking about certain aspects of Greek life (since we're using those kind of analogies) - this could be considered the same type thing.
This year's group is leaving in two weeks, so they'll be able to come back and share their experiences.