[AXOrushadvisor]

IMHO, recruitment is really a fickle business. The elephant in the room is that on most college campuses all sororities are not created equal. They are all different and all have different levels of success on a campus and that is ok because there are all different types of women who go through recruitment. There are wonderful girls on every campus that get dropped every fall from Chapters and girls Chapters don't think are qualified and released from every Chapter. I would tell my own daughter that if she got to the end of recruitment and went entirely through the whole process and still didn't feel any connection with what she had left to NOT sign a bid card. Most of us this board are old and wise and I think we sometimes forget what it is like to be an 18 year old "girl" who may not have a Mom or a Sister who is Greek to help guide them through the process.