[Drolefille]

I think the whole etiquette kerfuffle occurs because you naturally talk about a wedding. It's not polite to talk about a party that others aren't invited to in front of them, but weddings get talked about and then people get openly offended. Instead of seething at home because they didn't get to come to your garden party that they weren't technically told about, they call and tell you off.

Also, Firefox knows how to spell kerfuffle.