[shadokat]

Man, lighten up on the girl. Yes, she got invited back to pref for two other sororities, and she said she didn't see herself as a fit. Let it go!

To I_Wish, I do agree with the advice that if you went through once and didn't receive a bid the first time to the orgs you were interested in, you are likely to have the same outcome, barring some miraculous change. So prepare yourself for that.

Best of luck, whatever you decide to do.