Wow that did sound really pretentious of me!! The girls in the two sororities are really nice people but I personally cannot see myself hanging out with them, doing the kinds of activities they do etc...isn't each sorority different so that you can find where you feel most comfortable?

I do admit that sounded AWEFUL of me to say values because they have great values! I think I meant that we have differing personalities etc...

Anyway, I can't try and defend myself anymore, it isn't that important, I was just looking for advice and I received a lot of great feedback.