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Originally Posted by skylar27
So I rushed but didn't receive a bid. However all the sororities I rushed said different versions of "sorry it didn't work out but if you're still interested come back next year!". Are these sincere comments or is this a rehearsed line that sisters are just required to say to those who didnt make it?
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I was actually wondering how the girls knew you didn't get a bid, but then in your second post you said you went through informal so they would know. My guess is they were feeling awkward about it and that is why they mentioned it to you. I don't necessarily think that it is a "canned" answer just them trying to be apologetic. When stuff like this happens in recruitment it is not easy for any one involved including the current sorority members. They remember what it is like to go through and get rejected and they are sensitive to it as they should be. And no they are not required to say it and if they didn't like you they probably would have said nothing.