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Originally Posted by aephi alum
You're marrying another woman?? (Just yanking your chain - fiancé is the masculine, fiancée is the feminine. Two years of high school French will do that to ya.  )
It's your wedding.
With weddings, the Golden Rule prevails: Whoever has the gold, makes the rules. If your mother insists on orange bridesmaids' dresses with neon green sashes and lavender shoes, she has to be willing to PAY for the orange dresses, neon green sashes, and lavender shoes - otherwise she can suck it up and deal with the fact that your bridesmaids will wear red. |
Hell, if mom's paying for the wedding she needs to offer the money no strings attached or with clear strings at the beginning "I don't want to pay for your Klan wedding topper" is reasonable, "I don't want to pay for red dresses" is micromanaging.