Sandy-
I'm so sorry that happened to you. You know, I can't believe how insensitive guys can be. I mean, I know he sold his car and stuff, but for chrissakes if he had to come over with his girlfriend, couldn't she have styed in the car? Maybe get another tattoo while she was waiting? Grrr...I hate guys sometimes! (heh, a lot of it has to do with my breakup of my boyfriend of almost two and a half years) I know how you feel, and remember, as much as it sucks, things happen for a reason. And remember, you have all of your sisters here for you.
We love you!
Holly
P.S. to dzsaigirl... to go with what you were saying, my new theme song is "love stinks"