[IrishLake]

You've been lurking all year and you're surprised you aren't getting sympathy? You made your bed, you have no one to blame but yourself, so no, you're not going to get any sympathy. Were it your mom, she might get sympathy because stuff like this is out of the control of moms of PNMs. Were it someone who maximized all their options and still ended up bidless, yeah, she might get some sympathy, because those girls did everything right, and it was out of their control.

You had something in your grasp, and you chose to let it go. Do you know how many girls went through UF rush last year who ended up bidless who would have killed for your bid? What are we supposed to say to that? Let this just be a life lesson: you can't always get what you want, and appreciate what opportunities you have been given, and make the most out of it.

By all means, rush again this fall! Get your recs in order, and knock 'em dead!