[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by GatorKate

Listen, ladies, I'm going to be very honest with you. People come on the site either to embrace their sisterhood or lament the lack of it and you need to embrace BOTH of those types of people. From reading the threads for awhile now, I just have to say that some of you are really judgemental and hurtful to people who are already hurting, already feel judged. Would it kill any of you just to sympathize with someone? You sympathize with the MOTHERS of girls who have gone through exactly what I went through? Girls who would probablly write the same thing I wrote! I'm not moping, this is something that I've kept inside me and felt this would be a good outlet to express it. You go on a journey and the end destination isn't the same as everyones, but some people felt what you felt, and ended up where you end up, and you want to either celebrate or commiserate or maybe, like in my case, share it and let it go. If you really care about sisterhood, practice a little more to the posters on GC is all I'm saying.

FYI: When you put things out on the internet, people are going to post their opinions. Not always ponies and rainbows.

Not everyone is going to say "oh you poor baby..."

Yes, it's unfortunate that you didn't get your top choice. There are many many stories here of girls who didn't.

If someone is a brand new new member, I can smpathize.

But you've been in this chapter for a year at this point.

You can either:

1. Be happy with what you have.
2. Sulk about this other house for the rest of college.
3. Quit.