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I think it depends on the family as well. I know that when I joined AXO, it was less of a deal than when my cousin joined an NPHC group that wasn't exactly expected. There was more of a tradition to be broken by NOT joining a certain sorority within the NPHC than going outside of the conference altogether.
Either way, folks got over both situations pretty quickly. My mother at first didn't think that my membership was serious or "lifetime," but whatevs.
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