[nikki25]

Yesterday's show was highly complex...which was great! Did you all catch their conversation about Maya's cheating. What did you think about those statements? Toni didn't want her to tell that she cheated on Darnell because she had gotten away with it. Joan was saying that she only wanted to tell to ease her own guilt. I thought that was interesting given some of the convos surfacing around the good Greekchat!

I believe that she should have told Darnell long ago. That way, if he stuck around, he wouldn't have stuck around in a lie, like he eventually did. The reason why she was so disshelved at the end of the show was because she had been found out! She was so silly during that whole Stan nonsense. Like my granddad used to say..the things that you do in your "youth" will come back to "hant" you.

I'm probably like the "new" Toni...concerned about other people's feelings, with a healthy sense of self. And, like Joan in my focus on my career and being a "mother"-like figure in her friends life.

I love that show because of the "real-ness" of the dialogue. I may not agree with Joan's decision to be with "Junior" on last night's episode, but her emotions and the way that she expressed them to her old boy and Toni were real. What was also real was the way that Maya's hubby found out about the affair....those dang cell phones!