[33girl]

No, you get to the point where you're sick of what you had to say to him not being heard. (And you've also gotten to the point where you realize that he's not going to kill himself.) He was engaged to someone else 6 months later, so obviously all my fears were for naught.

I still think that sitting down and writing someone a letter is better than treating them like crap and hoping they dump you because of it. Obviously being able to sit down and discuss things rationally with the person is preferable to both of those, but depending on your own issues in life as well as theirs that's not always an option. The thing is I HAD tried the "rational" route and thought it had worked, and found out quickly (I'm talking hours) that it hadn't.