[glitterandgrace]

Wow. This is one of the rudest things I've ever read! I'm an active at a smaller school (about 2000) and a girl was dropped from her legacy house during last year's recruitment. Her sister is an active and held a pretty high position within the house. If it can happen at a small school where there are far fewer legacies, I'm convinced it happens at larger school. I was going to wish you luck after reading your first post because I know how exciting it would be to have the chance to share that with your family. I've changed my mind since seeing how disrespectful and rude you were to a Panhellenic member from your school offering you advice!