It's official. Being the dumpee sucks.
It's so ironic for this thread to be near the top today because, about 10 minutes ago, I got dumped.....by the 14 yo girl I mentor.
On Wednesday, we made plans for today and when I just called, she'd changed her mind. She said she's just not interested in seeing me anymore, she doesn't have the time (uh HELLO you're 14 and it's summer!!!). It's so awkward, I have her b-day present that I was gonna drop off....I don't know whether to just put it in the mail or actually see her again. This feels like a real breakup, she even gave me the "it's not you, it's me" line. WTH? Did I do something wrong? Do I just suck? This hurts more than the one time I actually
was dumped by a guy.
I miss being the "dumper," this is not a good feeling at all.