She's not 18 anyways. But, since the OP is coming from Russia, she may think that you have to be a certain way in order to be in a fraternity or sorority. OP, hopefully, since you've read these threads that have been posted in years past, you will see that everyone has a different personality. In one sorority on one college campus alone, you may have a few people who are focused on looks, a few focused on grades, a few focused on partying, and a few focused on Harry Potter or the color blue or playing with LEGOs. My point is, the simple answer to your question is no. Sororities are not completely superficial.
That being said, do not show up to rush wearing dirty jeans and an old t-shirt. Look nice, be positive, and start your day with a smile. Your personality will be more important than the way you look, anyways. Don't worry about not looking like a model. If you're confident and friendly, that will go much further than if you have this season's Gucci purse.
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