I would stay away from questions regarding booze, bars and boys and drugs- I know that sounds like a no brainer, but you would be surprised how many women talk about really inappropriate things during recruitment. Recruitment is like a job interview you want to learn as much about the chapter as they want to learn about you. Try not to answer questions with just a yes and no try to make more of a conversation out of your answer. Ask thoughtful questions- if you want to know the answers to the questions. Trust me the girls know when your paying attention and care. Look the sorority girls in the eye when your speaking to them. I know you want to look around the room, but try to do that when your walking in and out of the party. If you want to see who else is in the party with you check out the line while your waiting. Act interested not bored EVEN if your so tired you think your going to fall asleep while your standing there and your feet are killing you. The sorority girls are experiencing the same thing so don't complain. Dig deep and find that last ounce of energy and keep going with a smile on your face. Last but not least, if you find yourself in a party that you really don't want to be at be nice and polite not mean and nasty. These women have put a lot of time and effort into trying to come up with a nice party for you to attend and deserve some common courtesy and respect.
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