Hello all I know that it has been a while since I posted any replies but its nice to see that we are still on this topic......
I do agree with Zetaphied!!!! I think that in this society somehow the idea of women being liberated has been taken in all the wrong ways!!!! I simply mean this, yes it is great to be a women and independent doing your own thing, but how can you get upset if a guy wants to pull out your chair for you or open doors, I think that when men do things like that, it further adds to your depictions and persona as a woman. You are being recognized as that and that should make you feel damn good!!! pardon the french!!!! I have recently noticed that men are more inclined to treat a woman how she acts, yes it is true that all women should be respected I understand that but if you dont respect yourself than how can you expect a man to respect you let alone open doors and pull out chairs? Being liberated and not wanting a man to do things for you is nice and all but if you are truly a liberated woman you will know when a man is pulling out you chair and being chivalrous towards you he is only further classifying you as such so I dont think women should back down from such kindness. As always this is not law its just my opinions but I hope that what I have is helpful..!!!
