[stillwater15]

i used to think...

- honestly, that God had "issues" and needed my help
- that i'd never fall in love again
- that i'd never want children
- that i'd never want to get married
- that my mother (when younger) was intentionally trying to ruin my life
- that the only words my mother knew were "no", "get a job", "'cause i said so" and various profanities
- that i'd have my ed.d. by now
- that i'd be well on my way in my "dream" job
- that being from 'da hood, somehow lessened my existence, importance, intelligence, etc.
- that i'd be officiating "big-time" women's college bball by now

tlaw - i'll also agree that not all men cheat. i know more than a few "good" ones.