[AOII Angel]

If you are having difficulties letting go and are doubting yourself, counseling may be in order, too. A lot of these issues have to do with the men making their girlfriends feel dependent on them and making them feel like the situation is their fault. There is nothing wrong with having a professional to talk through these issues. You need to really get a handle on why you fell into the relationship with THIS guy so you can avoid a relationship with another guy like him or fall back into a relationship with the same guy again when he comes crawling back with flowers, crying that he didn't mean to hurt you.