[LucyKKG]

Hello TexasPNM13,

I'm sure some people can go into more detail, but here's the summarized version of what I think about your post:

- Go through recruitment so you can get a look at EACH chapter at your school. That's what recruitment is for. You may find that you fit better with a different organization (or who know, you could still be all about Kappa).

- Discretion is a good thing! You have given out a lot of personal information on the internet, and a lot of people read these boards.

- Being at a southern school, you may be at a disadvantage because you are older than a freshman. I am not an expert (at all) in regards to your school, but that's what I have heard multiple times. No one here can tell you what your chances are of getting a bid.