[ASTalumna06]

If one of my friends was in a serious relationship with someone, I assume they're off limits and don't even try.

However, I don't really care if anyone dates my exes. If you're happy, I'm happy for you. Who am I to tell someone that they can't go out with a guy if they truly like him?

One of my (sorority) sisters started dating one of my exes (no she didn't ask permission.. and I don't care), and I'm not even sure how I heard about the whole thing, actually. Maybe she told me, maybe someone else did. It obviously isn't important to me. They've been together for 3 years now. I would feel horrible if, knowing what I do now, I had become upset with her and demanded that she not date him.

I'm happy right now, and I know she is, too. I see them on occasion, and it's never weird or awkward. But I don't get weird/awkward about many things, and I'm friends with most of my exes.

And if any of my other friends date one of my exes, I hope they're happier with them than I was.