I just had an ex-boyfriend (from a legitimate 2-year relationship, lol) marry one of my dear friends from HS.
No, they didn't ask permission when they started dating, and yes, it pissed me off initially (still does a little) because they went about it behind my back for a long time. I probably wouldn't have been nearly as annoyed if I had just gotten a little heads up from the beginning.
Anyways, they're happy, I'm happy in my relationship; I eventually decided it just wasn't worth the energy to hold a grudge and got over it. Unfortunately, I was still friends with the both of them when they started dating, and our friendships haven't been the same since.
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