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Originally Posted by VandalSquirrel

Hell no! it would ruin my current look of spinster with two cats who also knits and is considering a professional graduate degree in librarianship.

That reminds me, time to get an eye exam for some new cat eye glasses and I need a haircut because my bun is just getting unruly.

YES. I make cat, spinster, future Ph. D. student jokes all the time. Although I don't know if an Ed. S. to Ph. D. program in a mental health field is "spinster" enough. Think I need to keep looking.

I would tend to agree with you, there are A WHOLE LOT of really great things that woldn't have happened if I were married in undergrad.

It sounds so silly, but I think about married girls who are trying to go through recruitment and they come here for rush advice. They're headed to some of the most traditional Greek Life schools in the country and thinking they'll be able to join. Even at my kind of crazy school, chapters were not very interested in married girls. Sure they were open to some non-traditionals (maybe 23, 24, a transfer) but we were still a very traditional school with Greek housing, and chapters knew that married girls were not going to live-in.

Sure, sorority is not LIFE. But that's a part of college I for sure wouldn't have been able to experience as a married student. Married folk have to worry about what hubby is going to eat, and from 18-21 it was all T-Bell and microwaved stuff. lol.