Thanks for the advice so far. I know you guys said to look at websites for a list of alum but I am wondering if the alums on these websites will feel strange about writing me a rec and what not since they dont know me or if they will write something negative to a chapter because I have invaded their privacy by just looking them up without even knowing them and asking for a rec. I have spoken with the Panhellenic Council people here and they said that it is the "pnm's" (as you guys call it) responsibility to get recs and that the sororities do not it for you. So I am getting confused.
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