Am I the only person who thought of Bull Durham, when Annie yells, "Crash!" while in bed with Nuke? Her response: "Would you rather me be making love to him, using your name, or making love to you, using his name?"
But in answer to the question, they're both cheating, so why bother wondering which form of cheating is kinder? You can deal with a fantasy, but not an "emotional infidelity"; and AOII Angel is right about the affair.
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