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Old 05-17-2010, 07:08 PM
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Originally Posted by BluPhire View Post
This is the definition according to my wife and her female friends.

In a nutshell being intimate on an emotional level that is normally reserved for your spouse.

In other words sharing those emotional moments normally meant for your spouse and spouse only.

In a medieval sense....courtly love. (Guinevere and Lancelot minus the actual having sex parts of the prose)
But that's so different for everyone. Some people (male or female) just aren't big "sharers" in general, no matter who it's with. And some people put EVERYTHING out there. Maybe according to Joe, a woman sharing her life story with him is "emotional infidelity" because he's a very reticent person...and he would feel like he cheated listening to her tell it...but maybe according to her, it means absolutely nothing because she has a big damn mouth and shares intimate details with everyone whose path she crosses.

Whereas intercourse, oral sex etc are pretty easily defined.
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