Wait and see what they actually ask you. They may not want to know why you didn't go through recruitment in college but rather what you have to offer now. It is an honor to have someone nominate you for membership. It's a long process, and you'll have time to think through these things. I think the best thing is to not make excuses. Sororities are looking for accomplished women to add to their membership, not to berate women for not joining as collegians once a member had identified them as candidates for membership.
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