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I kind of went through the same thing except our recruitment is deferred so I only knew the girls in my house for a semester. I think the dynamics changed for me during our first recruitment on the other side and also when I was elected to a position in the house. There will always be cliques, even in college, and I'm one of those people who likes to float and have friends in many different groups which makes it hard to establish one core group of friends. Both recruitment and leadership really helped me to interact with people in different situations and people began to see me as less quiet and reserved. I became more confident in my interactions with people which led to friendships. Give it time...a lot of people don't just magically click and live happily ever after. But once you finally find your niche, it's awesome! The friends I've made in college will be my friends for life and are much stronger friendships than I had in high school.
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