i've only had one serious relationship (which ended last month, oh well) which was with a Sammy, but i've gone out with a TKE and a SigEp (he never fails to crack me up), and actually, 2 other Sammies (just can't stay away from them I guess!
). The latter ones were just fun dating around and they were all good guys, and im still friends with all of them... but of course, i cherished and loved (i still do) my ex the most....*sigh* I still have his lavalier and some Sammys stuff Theta, you rightfully said all that I wanted to already but the understanding the other person's Greek obligations n stuff =)...
and it's also funny how all the things i look for lead me to a fraternity man...niceness, sense of humor, good conversationalist, likes to have fun, understanding, looks (well it's not required, but it's an added bonus, and it just all happened that all the guys i've dated were hot,haha), and of course, can get along with my brothers n sisters (real important for attending functions w/ me!)....greek love is really like no other!