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Initiation is not supposed to be a "challenge" or where someone is supposed to prove something to you. Initiations are supposed to be a celebration of the person entering your membership. It should be a ritual where you welcome them...not make them prove themselves. If you want them to prove themselves, then maybe you shouldn't have chosen them for membership in the first place if you're not accepting of them till they do something for you.
Please think about this, seriously....sounds like you're barking up a hazing tree.
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