[AOII Angel]

Well, Jordan, it sounds like the first thing you did wrong is not get recs. I suggest you remedy that. Secondly, you've made friends in one of the sororities you are interested in...that's a start. Realize, HOWEVER, that this does NOT guarantee you a spot in that chapter. Go through recruitment with an open mind. Your second mistake in recruitment was your refusal to keep an open mind about the process. Even having girls in a chapter who have a history with you does not mean that a chapter is off limits to you. You'll always have girls in your chapter that don't get along with you. It's a fact of life. In the end, no one can guarantee that you won't get your feelings hurt again. Anytime you put yourself out there, hurt feelings are always a possibility. But if you don't try, you'll never have a chance! Good luck!