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Originally Posted by DrPhil
The Olympic dude who drinks--I agree with what he said, which was if he (or any of these men) had a chance to get to know her, they'd be able to assess their opinion of her flaws the way she does them. Instead, she seems to keep this judgmental wall up that makes her appear like a clean slate while these dudes are on the chopping block with EVERYTHING they do. What she's doing is a COMMON dating mistake.
If these dudes were smart and wanted to really clown, they'd say "you're gorgeous but let go of the baby hair" or "are you really judging me when you are JUST a 'baby mama?!' SRSLY?! I don't care if he was your first--he wasn't your husband." There are so many places to go with people who act like they are the prosecutor, judge, and juror for everyone.
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I totally agree. But not only is the "judgmental wall" she puts up a dating mistake, it's a life mistake. Umm, I remember a little phrase that goes a little something like, "Don't judge a book by its cover."
But I guess in this case it goes both ways because I didn't know anything about Chili's personality before the dating show. I was a little familiar with the Usher drama, but didn't know anything about her as a person. Obviously because of this, I thought she was a beautiful person. I still think she's pretty, but didn't realize she was so close-minded...
Also, there was nothing wrong with half the men she "dated." She didn't have to talk to last dude like that, though. I hate when people try to pin you as an alcoholic because you enjoy a glass of wine with dinner. Dude obviously wasn't drunk, spilling his drink, or acting up in any way. That last comment she made about him not making the Olympic team because of his drinking was uncalled for. I kind of wished he was rude about it, just because of the way she was acting the whole episode, but I'm glad he kept it classy.
LOL @ the baby hair comment. When will it go out of style?!?!
