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Originally Posted by hopelessromance

Thanks for your advise girls! I talked to one of my cousins when she came over for Sunday dinner and she said that her sorority would give me more attention since she is an active member but since our cousin is also in another and it is her brother's fiance who just graduated and was president her senior year in another that I have to decide which one I like best. It is stressing me out but I just have to take a deep breath and focus on the fun experience of going through recruitment! She was basically like girl this just gives you knowledge of the organizations and can help you pick your favorite and not feel so shy in meeting a ton of new girls. I just hope now that if I pick between my mom's and my cousin's or even my aunts that someone doesn't feel I betrayed them. I can only pick one after all!

Well, recruitment is also a mutual selection process. So just as you are attempting to discern which chapters fit you best, the CHAPTERS are doing the same. So while you will be making decisions, so will they.