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Originally Posted by mkprncss
Thank you for your advice. I do plan on being open minded about the other groups as well. I agree--I may fall in love with a completely different one.
As for my age, I'm only 20. I didn't think that was old for a sorority!
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Ha, no it isn't necessarily old for a sorority- I meant that in terms of how many more years you will be in school. That really matters at some schools- and is a factor in some way or another. At mine, we had small chapters (all around 25-30) so most actives had leadership roles. An upperclass student had fewer years to serve as an officer- so that was a factor. But at the same time, we also liked them for what they brought to the table in terms of diversity of experience & maturity. So in the end it was a wash. However- at some schools it is an automatic out unless you are incredibly amazing and fantastic. Not saying you aren't, but you do have a couple of strikes to be mindful of. Hence my recommendation to either go through it fully (without intention of Single Intentional Preferencing, aka suiciding) or stop now.