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*looking away from Librasoul* Darn, I was hoping to avoid that question...
LOL. On the real, I would probably tell, but then again, I have never been considered a conventional male. I believe I would lose her, but then, I'd deserve that, wouldn't I? I believe, like you, that the best way to avoid temptation is to do just that - avoid temptation. Remove yourself if possible. I try to tell my spouse everything. For example, I coach athletics, and some of the parents are single moms, who want help to put up a curtain, or fix fuse, etc. at their homes. Sometimes, these women can be very suggestive. Now, I am not going to cheat on my wife. Point blank. These women do not attract me in any way. Still, why tempt fate? Why should I, as a married male, go to a single woman's home in the evening, alone? Why tempt fate? Thus, I just politely decline.
My point is that there are too many people who do not respect matrimony. These men and women lurk in the shadows, crippling peoples marriages. Some women, I've heard, get a special rush if they can make a man cheat on his wife. Also, when I was younger, the older guys always said that the best type of hassle-free, casual sex was with a married woman. If you pause to think, you'd understand why. Heck, the vocal point of just about every other rap song is the declaration that "I sexed your wife" There is a perverse pleasure in making committed couple stray from their promises.
There is just too much temptation out there, and I believe it gets worse when you marry. Too many people hawking booty. Ladies, you could probably attest to the same. What I do say is that instead of attempting to cyber-kill anyone who admits to it, we should look at the bigger picture. I definitely understand a man not wanting to tell of his infidelities. This is why I refuse to condemn anyone on here. I admit, losing my wife is a big motivator to avoid cheating. When you meet that special person, you'd do anything to keep them. Thus, I keep my zipper up when I am away, and think of her when heiffers arrive. I love sports, and admire shutouts. This is one record I am definitely gonna keep perfect.
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