My purity ring is the only ring I ever wear and, I have to admit, it's pretty and dainty and girly all the things I'm not.

I love it, but I don't want my wedding ring to look anything like it. I know exactly what I want and, while I think it'd be really romantic for a man to pick out what he thinks I'd like, but it'd be more romantic for me if he let me decide--better yet, if we decide together.
Sooooo what was this thread about? I think we've hijacked it to pieces.