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Originally posted by TLAW
... then again, how many ladies answered my last question? Thus, I don't think any of us should condemn anybody. Wear the dang shoe...
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I gotta go with DST Love on this one. Goodness, everything in life is a CHOICE. There wouldn't BE a seduction if you weren't PRESENT to be subjected to it, would there? And I would go out on a limb and say that 95% of the time, you can pretty much tell if someone is attracted to you to the extent that they would seduce you, or "pounce on you," if given the oppurtunity. The other 5%, chalk it up to pure denial.
I just really abhor when people make poor desicions and try to blame it on everyone but themselves. Sure, there are always going to be mitigating factors, and you are not always going to be able to control everything around you. But unless there is some EXTREME situation - like if (s)he ties you up, strips you naked, and rapes you - there is no way that you can deny that you had a choice of whether to give in or not. Be a (WO)MAN, and admit you were dead wrong, and move on.
What about you TLAW. You seem to like playing devil's advocate...would you tell?